She said..."please come to my wedding..."
Then, everything went black...
Alright, exag. I didn't faint after reading the wedding invite. Medyo nahilo lang ng konti. Lol.
Announcements like this make me a bit crazy. Each year, my single friends marry one by one. Odessa is the first to marry in 2009. Then, another one is scheduled to marry in two years time - she already received a proposal. I always say, ok lang, marami pa naman kami. (Based on my unofficial count, I still have around 14 unmarried girlfriends, only 3 or 4 have boyfriends). But until when can I say that? Nobody knows for sure.
Ok lang naman talaga e kahit na single pa ako until now. Although, I must admit, masaya naman talaga ang buhay kapag may boyfriend ka. Especially kung super understanding at bait ng bf mo. But being single still has its benefits. Like (1) a single girl can go anywhere she likes without asking permission from a boyfriend or husband and (2) she can spend her money anyway she likes it - hindi pa kailangang bumili ng gatas or diapers for the baby.
Ang sobrang nakakainis lang kapag single ka pa e kapag nagsimula ng magtanong ang mga married friends mo (your single friends will never ask kung kelan ka mag-aasawa...siempre kasi ayaw rin nila matanong) or mga kamag-anak mo. I stopped going to family reunions and special occasions last year specifically because of this reason. Everybody was asking me..."o, kelan ka naman mag-aasawa?" Kapag ganito na ang eksena, parang gusto kong magpaka-Clara at sabunutan sila at kaladkarin palabas ng venue. Hehehe...a bit harsh, I know. Pero I'm sure you will understand if you have been in the same situation.
Anyway, I can go on and on about why I love being single. The truth is one day I also dream of being a bride. A blushing bride on my wedding day. Parang si Juday. Idol ko siya kasi she got married at almost 31 yo na. So I still have a few years para humabol. =D
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